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Shelagh,
Sorry I didn't answer you sooner. I found your post to me on your page rather than mine. If you mean you used to see my screen... more »

Shelagh,
Sorry I didn't answer you sooner. I found your post to me on your page rather than mine. If you mean you used to see my screen name at cheers, I only posted occasionally and don't post at all there anymore. My daughter is almost 24 years old.

Mary, I've seen your screen name... don't remember communicating much bck then, though. My name is same as Sheila, with a 'hard' Shee-... more »

Mary, I've seen your screen name... don't remember communicating much bck then, though. My name is same as Sheila, with a 'hard' Shee- beginning, rather than the softer sounding 'shield' . Just a fancier way to spell it.
I'm rather fond of my name & it's spelling; my father preferred the Gaelic spelling~
How old is your daughter?

Hi Shelagh,
My name at cheers was the same as here, deskmsmks. But as I said I don't post there anymore because of a poser some of us... more »

Hi Shelagh,
My name at cheers was the same as here, deskmsmks. But as I said I don't post there anymore because of a poser some of us had problems with last year. I like your way of remembering dates when you see them digitally. I noticed some of the dates you mention are close to dates that mean something to me. Our anniversary was 7-16, my daughters birthday is 5-14 and my husband died 12-8. Is your name pronounced the same as Shelia?

Mary, I've seen your screen name... don't remember communicating much bck... more »

Mary, I've seen your screen name... don't remember communicating much bck then, though. My name is same as Sheila, with a 'hard' Shee- beginning, rather than the softer sounding 'shield' . Just a fancier way to spell it.
I'm rather fond of my name & it's spelling; my father preferred the Gaelic spelling~
How old is your daughter?

I meant to say this; I focus on celebrating the memories rather than feed... more »

I meant to say this; I focus on celebrating the memories rather than feed on grief~ feel it's healthier for me... I've had my share & it's easier to share laughter. My husband, Gary, had an awesome sense of humor & adored me for mine.

cool cool, Mary- thanks for sharing~ I really thought is was something to... more »

cool cool, Mary- thanks for sharing~ I really thought is was something to do with being a desk jockey/uber secretary or ceo...
What do you call yourself in Cheers?-
I do my rememberences via numbers- 627, our anniversary; 516, his b-day; 1217, day he died- little rituals bring comfort~ and when I see these numbers on a digital clock I smile & say 'hey sweetie'- even the 1217- that's as much a part of who we are than anything...
613, my son's b-day; 927, my brother's...

deskmsmks... means what? funny you should ask what to call me when I... more »

deskmsmks... means what? funny you should ask what to call me when I haven't a clue about you! lol-
My name is Shelagh, toss a 'u' in there as my family does & there's my nick-name. I lucked out with my name being so much fun to play with.

Had to go with 2nd option- thank you, my friend... I'm pretty cool, just... more »

Had to go with 2nd option- thank you, my friend... I'm pretty cool, just not as savvy as I put on, lol... I am thrilled to be a member of this prestigious clique- just hope there's a 'no razing' policy here.
There is, right?
A 'no razing' policy?