Sex Before marriage

sure, this isnt the site i should be posting this, but w/e. i believe that sex should be with someone you love, and honestly i'm a virgin. i've yet to meet that one guy (or girl) who i've cared enough about to take it all the way. i dont care if people think i'm stupid or if they mock me, but seriously, it's a choice, it just irks me that some people call me a loser or a dumbass for waiting. If i have to wait until marriage, i wouldnt mind haveing sex before marriage, if it was with someone i did care about, but if i could/can i wont until we're legally wed.